10 Jul 2010

Blog under construction (well not really but I’m stumped)



I got lucky and received some constructive feedback these past few days. Since Posterous staff also said they were going to look into why some text colors were off, this is just a post here to say I’m temporarily thinking of re-hauling the blog as I try to improve my writing style.

Good day and talk to you when all this is done.P.S. I’m still available on Twitter and the Forum

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23 Jun 2010

In need of reader feedback

Copy-paste of post here:
Now that there’s a forum, I’m thinking of dropping the chewables type threads on the blog as they are often copy pasted and I don’t add any extra original content to them most of the time.

That said I wonder which is more preferable for the readers. Some of the core differences I can think of are:

Blogs:Easier navigation and discovery - Posts are auto-tweeted. Don’t require posts to keep on top.

Longer staying time - While both are free services I’m registered into and neither contents are backed up on my side, the blogs are more longer lasting because even if the comments fell from spamming the content and position of the post remains the same. Also since my Posterous is also auto-posted in Tumblr, it’s two baskets vs. one.Youtube embeds - While a member on the forum said it’s possible to add youtube tags, he didn’t show me how.

Forum: Easier anonymous posting - The open forum doesn’t require providing your e-mail.

Forum lay-out - Maybe this is just a biased sample but it seems more hikikomories are willing to comment and discuss things on a discussion board than if it’s on someone’s blog. That said, it’s still no anonymous imageboard though. I know some blogs often cross-post from a blog to a forum but I’ve always felt that it unnecessarily spreads the commentors apart.

That said, I am guilty of separating Posterous and Tumblr copies of the blog but I felt that was more of a background and backup issue.

For those who didn’t visit the Posteous pages, here’s what I mean by a chewables thread: Copy-Paste: The adversity of opportunity

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18 Jun 2010

Introducing the Temporary Hikikomori StopGap Forum

Some of you may have noticed the new forum link below the blog title.Well, that’s a general forum I registered in MyBB as a Hikikomori forum.

For more details, here’s the copy-paste details I’ve posted in the forum. NewsFlash, hikikomori forums exist already!

Yeah…I can’t say I’ve been in every one of them but for the most part, this forum was a struggle for me.

I have zero experiences with being an admin for a forum and I don’t even know most of the options on MyBB. I didn’t even visit the support forums yet and I don’t know if I’ve set anything incorrectly.

For the most part though, some Hikikomories felt alienated or discontent with other hikikomori forums and I created this one as a temporary gap. Actually I’m one of the ones who left a hikikomori community but for the most part, I just post on free blogs.

To avoid coming off like I’m competing with the membership of other hikikomori forums though, I’m making this a general forum for anyone even non-hikikomories to participate in. It’s just that for the most part, I am a Non-Japanese hikikomori and that’s the community I aim this forum for.
Talk of the Differences!

Well Hikikomories prefer Imageboards and this isn’t one for one thing.I do provide a “Trash Zone” sub-forum though if you haven’t noticed. I doubt it will inspire people to post anonymously though.

Other rules I didn’t include in the main rules link are:*Sub-forums - This was a minor issue in another hikikomori forum I was in and my stance on this is simple. Setting aside my own preference, if you want a sub-forum made, there’s two paths you can go at it.

Get enough topics made on a single subject that it fills up these original forums and I’ll make a sub-forum for it which is the more obvious path.(Although for the above, I don’t know if MyBB has anyway to mass-move forum topics to another sub-forum)

The second one though is why I’m addressing this. If you want to request a sub-forum, my requirement is that you have a list of topics to fill it already. Be able to do that without flooding a forum like a spammer and you get to keep your sub-forum. Fail to do that in a day and I’ll delete it. Depending on my interest in the topic though, I might extend that to a week or a month and see how it goes.

*Post editing - This was often a trick abused by hikikomories in another forum I was in. That’s why here, I’ve set a time limit for how long before you can edit your post. (It should be 30 min. per post if I set it correctly.) As far as requesting for a post to be deleted, I’m normally regretful of deleting posts but it’s your right. I can’t guarantee I can delete anything quickly though depending on how much I got flooded with these requests.

*How Temporary is Temporary - For the most part, it’s based on how active I am at visiting and checking up on this forum.I’d like to think I would be an active admin but for the most part, I don’t think that’s possible. It’s not really very motivating to visit a mostly dead forum and if this does get enough members, I still can’t guarantee I would be here to moderate every hour. I’m very inconsistent even with my blog posting which is why I don’t schedule posts ahead of time.

It’s more likely though that I may be fast enough to moderate any problematic posts but you’ll just have to determine that from my actions rather than what I say here.Temporary also represents my lack of ability. Eventually you may find a hikikomori forum you wish to moved into because of my lack of skills. All I can say is as long as there’s users here, I’ll try to be active.

If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask.

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5 Nov 2009

Minor: Hikikomori StopGap Posterous Version Updated with Logo

Logo created via SupaLogo service.

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29 Oct 2009

HikiCulture Admin Strongly Suspected of Spamming

First off, my apologies for the image quality.

I’m very newbish at image editing and it was only this year that I discovered what “cropping” does.

Anyways, on to the topic.

The short version:

Someone has recently been spamming the HikiPhpBB forum. (1st screenshot)

There’s strong evidence that it is the admin of another Hikikomori forum, HikiCulture.

Evidence #1 is the conversation in the 2nd screenshot.

If the text is blurry, here’s the conversation:

Chair:

Me and thirteen other people are talking about you in my IRC channel right now Foolness.

Do you think we are saying positive, or negative things? You have a day to answer. If you don’t answer, I’ll beat you up.


(spamming occurs)

Later on…

“…”:

Cut this bullshit out now. You two have a problem, keep it off this board.

Google: (2nd spam account)
Wut R U gonna do about it tuff guy?

Evidence #2 is where this “Google” account pmed me:

Hi.

Sent at: Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:26 am
From: Google
To: Foolness

I’m Mr. Google, how R U?

The long version:

This all started with this blog post: Is HikiCulture turning more and more into a spam forum?

Then 2 HikiCulture admin (1 new, 1 the founder and user “Chair”) brought up some unrelated accusations of my time in the HikiCulture forum which prompted me to address the issue in a separate blog post:

Reply to Chair/HikiCulture admin

Around this time, the events prompted me to make two topics. One in the AnonIB /hikikomori/ board which is now deleted per the request of a user and another here.

If you visit the two above links, you’ll see how the events got cleared up under the comments.

After my name was cleared up and it turned out the accusation was mistakenly directed at me by a new admin, I focused on other blog posts I was working on and became inactive from the HikiPhpBB forum.

In particular I was kept busy by my recent blog post because of all the problems I have with getting it to post correctly.


Only after, did I return to the forum and address Chair’s recent reply to me. (I didn’t actually leave the forum though since that blog post was in reply to a topic made in that forum.)

That was when all these happened.

For a copy of my reply and Chair’s original post, just look at the last comment underneath the “Reply to Chair/HikiCulture admin” topic.

If the formatting is hard to read though, here’s my reply: (Note that Chair’s reply is chopped up into quotes)

Chair:

Sorry for being somewhat rude in my reply Foolness, I just don’t enjoy people making wild assumptions about me. In the future, if you want to know what my intentions are in anything I do, please email me at {{{e-mail removed}}}

Me:

Problem is, if you understood the context of the blog, I’m not even sure it was you who was editing the wikipedia article so why would I contact you?

If it was you however, then similarly, why should you be trusted to not censor the conversation when you have already strongly removed someone else’s post from a site you don’t own?

Contacting you privately was just not an option and the actions of both you and your fellow admin under the comment section further made it hard to follow that approach.

Chair:

I’ll likely respond to your email within a day or two of receiving it. I ask you of one thing though - if I’m to send you an email, please do not quote anything that I am to say in any of your blogs or elsewhere. If you do not comply with this request, I will not respond to any further inquiries. People quoting personal messages/email messages without first receiving consent from the person you’re quoting is, in my opinion, more unethical than a person ‘advertising’ their website on Wikipedia. This is only my opinion though of course.

Me:

It was a necessary evil I had to consider quickly.

When you and Quasar start bringing up an un-related issue in a blog topic, especially one that attacks my personal character, events can quickly become “he said/he said” and it could start a flame war.

In those circumstances it’s almost impossible to verify anything objectively because the admins are the ones throwing out the accusations and not just some members.

It can also be hard to rely on members on said community because you’re not sure how much they care about a flame war starting out.

In those cases, there are a few things that can be done to quickly quell the smoke. One of them is for one side to give out all the information they knew from their perspective.

Chair:

For the record - I truly feel that adding the HikiCulture link on Wikipedia is not unethical at all considering that:

Me:

It’s not about ethics. It’s about their rules for notability. Especially when a discussion page comment has been removed around the same time.

Chair:

My forum’s subject matter is very much relevant to the Wikipedia article the link is being posted on (If I were to stick a link to my site on the Viagra Wikipedia article for example, then yes, I’d agree with you on the whole ‘spam forum’ thing. There is high relevancy though).

Me:

No, in general, forums and blogs are not notable enough for Wikipedia no matter how related they are to the topic.

Even when this forum was on there, it was highly suspect.

It could’ve been easily attributed to the lack of English links.

When this forum was removed for some reason and not returned, it cemented the fact that the Wikipedians monitoring the article have decided that the article had improved enough that the forum link could be dropped.

Unless the link to this forum was re-added and gained consensus for notability, any other forum link replacing it is equally non-notable.

Even then, the issue between re-adding a forum link and deleting a post in the discussion board is far from the same intentions.

End

It was then that Chair posted that threatening reply above.

At that point, I didn’t understand what he meant by “beat up” and I ignored the post thinking it was just a normal flame.

Before I left though, I did saw the SPAM account post some spam but I never associated the two. (At the time, it was just 1 or 2 posts)

Then a couple of people pmed me (not much, I’m not an important person in any of the Hikikomori boards) and alerted me to the issue.

At first, I was even being overtly cautious and didn’t link the two events together but it turns out this might not be the first time Chair has spammed.

There was talk of a spam attack in /hikikomori/ linked to Chair which resulted in a backlash against HikiCulture in that board. (An event I never saw but was talked about in pm)

Coupled with the other evidences above and there’s strong evidence that Chair is the spammer based on all this.

Please note that after the “Wikipedia” issue got clarified, I’ve never seen Chair spam the HikiCulture boards elsewhere so I’m not removing the HikiCulture link in this post just yet.

I will however put a warning that Chair is strongly suspected of being a spammer.

I will also try to post this link in several social media sites so for those who are reading this that are not Hikikomori or do not care for the English-speaking Hikikomori community, my apologies for blogspamming in your favorite sites. I just felt this issue was serious enough to “report” as to keep future Hikikomoris from (possibly) being associated with a spammer.

See and download the full gallery on posterous

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23 Oct 2009

First “Chewables” Post

This should have been a cut and dry copy paste but I don’t consider the link thought provoking nor practical.In fact, the reason I’m even posting this is because many adult couples seem to get that they need to treat their partners as equals or at least within the boundaries of their culture but when it comes to the Hikikomori phenomenon, even the so-called experts seem to be baffled as to why a Hikikomori would commit a crime when they are disturbed.

  • A separate work area is critical. My husband eventually moved to another room to his own space and can close the door as needed.
  • Respect privacy - knock on the door and also ask if okay to interrupt.
  • Work flow patterns should be recognized. Your way isn’t the only way to work.
  • Communicate about quitting times. If you expect your partner to be done and able to play at a certain time, you need to discuss it.
  • If possible, take a coffee or lunch break together. Isn’t it nice to hang out with your partner in the middle of the workday?
Source: http://www.jobacle.com/blog/2009/10/21/co-working-with-your-co-habitant.html This doesn’t hold enough details though to be a howto nor is this something you can just hand over to anyone you’re living with and they’ll suddenly “get it” especially if it’s a senior or higher authority.

This is why it’s so troublesome to think of what to tag this.It’s really one of those cookie cutter labels that you might see on generic slide shows to the point that it’s only useful if you print out the bullets and even then it’s just like a fun post that won’t make a difference if you read it or not.

Even worse, it could just make the reader go: “Yup! Yup! Parents suck!”Eventually, I settled for creating a new tag called “chewables” because if you omit everything I wrote here, this is no different than any run-of-the-mill nano-blog posts that you spot, pause, maybe reply and then forget except it’s not as cool because there’s no picture or smiley face in it.

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13 Oct 2009

Is HikiCulture turning more and more into a spam forum?

This is another placeholder topic but one slightly more serious:

First off, I’ve no doubt that - for members of this forum - this could easily come off as a HikiPhpBB vs. HikiCulture vs. AnonIB /hikikomori/ thread.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t help that coincidentally I’ve made a recent return post on HikiPhpBB.

This isn’t intentional but is a result of me just being frustrated and bored so I decided to re-check the Hikikomori boards I know of (except Sankaku and HikiCulture)

Sankaku because it’s a news site and I’m too busy to add further information overload unto myself and HikiCulture because I’ve been banned.

Another major blow to my bias but I’ll let you decide how much based on this incident:

From a recent revision of the Hikikomori wikipedia page discussion board:

I’ve been a member on a few Hikikomori and recluse forums and websites for a while now. “HikiCulture” keeps being linked to here, but it generally is not a good place for information and help. It’s still fairly new and the administrator has no idea on how to run a forum correctly and generally doesn’t understand that the site is for people who need help and information. He overreacts and abuses control without thinking about his actions, and he has Asperger’s Sydrome which hinders his decisive abilities, causing harsh and uncalled-for actions which may offend. He also bans people for things which are petty and do not require action. It’s generally a place to avoid due to this. The community itself is great, but the administrator known to some as “Chair” isn’t good for the community. I’ve heard of other Hikikomori sites opening soon for giving advice and help and they’ll be linked to here once they have been created.

Also, I am not meaning to cause offense, I have been asked to write this comment by a lot of members of the community at “HikiCulture”. The way it’s ran is unfair and the staff do not care about us with mental conditions, reclusiveness, depression and social anxiety. It’s not wise to link to “HikiCulture” any further.

Now I didn’t write this and I only had a short time on HikiCulture so I have no way of verifying this but what’s worrying is that this comment was up a few days ago.

I don’t participate much in Wikipedia but the argument while not verifying to me that it was accurate, did convince me that there was ample reason to remove the HikiCulture link from the main article so I decided to do so.

What’s worrying and why I am being harsh and calling it spam is that not only was the link restored but that the above quote was also removed.

Now I get that there’s no proof of any persistant trolling nor is this even a rare issue for most wikipedia articles but it is kind of worrying that the Hikikomori label may be starting to be used as a marketing tactic and that’s why I’m preserving these quotes in case it never gets restored.

(I’ve no patience for wikipedia edit wars.)

I also fully accept the responsibility that I may be accused of doing the same thing with this blog and this may come off as hypocritical mud-slinging by me but since I have no way to prove my integrity, I could only give my word that I don’t have an agenda against Hiki-Culture but it would be heart breaking if future Hikikomoris gather in the wrong place due to wikipedians’ neglect of protecting the Hikikomori article from such edits.

Therefore even if the word “spam” can be interpreted as sensationalism, this would have to stay to serve as linkbait in case the issue becomes more drastic in the future.

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19 Sep 2009

Posterous Version

Currently testing whether Posterous is more convenient than Tumblr.

At first, I skipped this because I’m not much of an e-mail user but eventually hearing lots of other posterous user mention the service and since I was looking for a more convenient blog editor than Tumblr’s, I eventually caved in.

Basic pros (for newbie bloggers like me) are that the commenting system is more anonymous but e-mail centric.

Cons are that I don’t know how to import those Disqus comments on Tumblr into all the topics and the tags basically disappeared unless I put them in one by one.

On the plus side, posterous has auto-posting which hopefully can offset that issue even if the comments are now basically halved.

Oh btw the link is: http://hiki.posterous.com

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16 Sep 2009

Update made to: Links to English Hikkikomori Discussion Boards

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