22 Oct 2009
Yes, accepting “the negative” CAN bring positive change and happiness!
Source: http://www.amazon.com/review/R2MVMEENU3Y1N4/ref=cm_cr_pr_viewpnt#R2MVMEENU3Y1N4I think Nancy Smith is incorrect in labeling this a “negative” book that has the “wrong perspective”. But many people do not wish to face the truths about life. The truths in this book are basically from the Buddhist point of view (though it’s not a “Buddhist book” per se), and Buddhism - though some believe it to be “negative” because of its emphasis on the reality of suffering and death in life - has a 2500 year history of helping people be happier. If accepting the reality of suffering and death is negative, then so be it. Show me someone who has gotten out of here alive. Show me someone who does NOT get sick, does NET grow old, does NOT die!!! I will pay you $10billion if you can show me that person.Yes, accepting “the negative” [ as you call it; I call them simple truths ] CAN bring positive change and happiness! This book led me to explore meditation and Buddhist thought, and so far this has been a very positive change for me. Buddhism is not a religion, it is a philosophy and way of thinking, based on a moral code and the practice of meditation on the breath. It also involves accepting the truths or realities in life, 5 of which make up this book.I loved the book and it changed my life - or I should say HELPED me to change my life - for the better.
Note: This isn’t so much a recommendation for the book but a praising for this specific comment.(Notice I didn’t tag this as a review or a book…that’s because I haven’t read the book at all. Just saw this comment and felt this was a short clue for why people become Hikikomoris for those who are absolutely baffled by the act. On the flip side, this isn’t new or practical for most people. Taken out of context even because the commentor didn’t direct this at any Hikikomori-related subject at all. Still, it’s a short inspiring quote.)
